Navigating church leadership with purpose
Church leadership is both a privilege and a responsibility, yet even the most dedicated leaders know it can also be demanding, and, at times isolating.This space exists to support those in ministry through coaching conversations, practical inisghts, and thoughtful encouragement.CoachingA confidential space for pastors and leaders to step back from daily pressures and reflect on their leadership, faith, and direction.
Coaching brings fresh perspective and helps you find clarity during complex or demanding seasons.Leadership EncouragementInsights and reflections designed to strengthen and support those serving in the realities of church leadership.
“Leadership in the church is a long journey.
It is often helpful not to walk it alone.”
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About Me
Hi, I'm Barry Farmilo. For thirty years I served as a lead pastor in New Zealand, walking alongside congregations through the many seasons of church life and ministry.Those years gave me a deep respect for the calling carried by pastors and leaders, and for the care they offer their communities.
Much of this work happens quietly - through spiritual responsibility, pastoral care, and guiding people in their faith journey.While ministry is deeply rewarding, it also carries significant demands.I've come to see how important it is for leaders to have space to pause, reflect, and to think intentionally about their leadership and direction.This is why I value coaching - providing a confidential, supportive environment for honest conversation, encouragement, and perspective.If you are looking for that kind of space , I'd be glad to walk alongside you.What else do I doI contribute to the encouragement and development of church leaders through my association with the CENTRE FOR CHURCH LEADERSHIPYou can also explore my FAITHMINUTE Youtube channel where I share short encouragements for everyday Christian life (see below)
What are you finding most challenging?
Carrying Responsibility
Are you carrying decisions or concerns that feel difficult to share with others?
Navigating Conflict
Are you dealing with a leadership situation that feels intimidating or a challenge to handle?
Sustaining Yourself
Are you finding it difficult to maintain energy, clarity, or perspective in this season?
Making Space to Reflect
When was the last time you had space to pause and think carefully about your leadership?
What I can offer as a Coach
Clarity for Decisions
Leadership often involves complex choices.Coaching helps you think through options and move forward with greater clarity and confidence.
Navigating Difficult Situations
Ministry includes people, pressure, and challenging moments.Coaching give you space to process these situations, and respond with wisdom and care .
Moving Forward with Confidence
When the next step feels unclear.Coaching helps you gain direction and take purposeful action in your leadership.
Change Starts with a Single Step
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