Barry Farmilo - Church Leadership Coach

Coaching for Church Pastors and Leaders

Church leadership often involves situations that require careful thought and wise decisions.Coaching provides a focused and confidential space to work through challenges, gain clarity, and move forward with confidence.These conversations are particularly helpful when:- facing a significant decision
- working through a complex situation
- seeking clarity about next steps
- wanting to lead with greater confidence and direction
Coaching is not about being given answers, but about helping you think clearly and find the right way forward for your situation.


“Leadership in the church is a long journey.
It is often helpful not to walk it alone.”

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About Me

I’m Barry Farmilo, a church leadership coach working with pastors and ministry leaders.
For thirty years I served as a lead pastor in New Zealand; 15 of these years as a C3 Church pastor. I have walked alongside congregations through the many seasons of church life and ministry.
Those years gave me a deep respect for the calling carried by pastors and leaders, and for the care they offer their communities.

While ministry is deeply rewarding, it also carries significant demands.I've come to see how important it is for leaders to have space to pause, reflect, and to think intentionally about their leadership and direction.This is why I value coaching - providing a confidential, supportive environment for honest conversation, encouragement, and perspective.If you are looking for that kind of space , I'd be glad to walk alongside you.What else I doI contribute to the encouragement and development of church leaders through my association with the CENTRE FOR CHURCH LEADERSHIPYou can also explore my YOUR FAITH MINUTE Youtube channel where I share short encouragements for everyday Christian life.

What are you finding most challenging?

Carrying Responsibility

Are you carrying decisions or concerns that feel difficult to share with others?

Navigating Conflict

Are you dealing with a leadership situation that feels intimidating or a challenge to handle?

Sustaining Yourself

Are you finding it difficult to maintain energy, clarity, or perspective in this season?

Making Space to Reflect

When was the last time you took a pause to think carefully about your leadership?

What I can offer as a Coach

Clarity for Decisions

Leadership often involves complex choices.Coaching helps you think through options and move forward with greater clarity and confidence.

Navigating Difficult Situations

Ministry includes people, pressure, and challenging moments.Coaching give you space to process these situations, and respond with wisdom and care .

Moving Forward with Confidence

When the next step feels unclear.Coaching helps you gain direction and take purposeful action in your leadership.

Coaching or Supervision?

Both coaching and professional supervision support church leaders, but they serve different purposes.Supervision helps you reflect on past situations and learn from experience.Coaching focuses on the present and helps you think clearly, make decisions, and move forward with confidence.If you are looking for clarity and a way ahead in your leadership, coaching provides a focused space to work through challenges and take your next steps

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